CAN THE WAY YOU MASTURBATE, OR EXCESSIVE MASTURBATION, CAUSE PREMATURE EJACULATION ?
Typical questions of guys with PE regarding masturbation habits:
- THE WAY you masturbate → Can the way you masturbate cause PE?
- FREQUENCY / OVERDOING IT→ Can excessive masturbation cause PE?
- The fear of being caught→ Can the fear of being caught during masturbation cause PE?
ANSWER:
→ No, complete Bullshit 💩.
→ In this video I'll debunk all those claims one by one.
The main reason for lifelong premature ejaculation is GENETICS.
- Real premature ejaculators finish too quickly right from the beginning, even BEFORE they had any chance to "condition" themselves by any masturbation habits.
- Regardless of whether you masturbate “correctly” or “incorrectly” - it will NOT change your genetics:
- your serotonin levels
- your hyper-arousability
- the sensitivity of your glans
- being a neurotic and anxious psychotype
→ The point is this: if you could train or condition yourself to finish too early through quick or excessive masturbation, then ALL men would have PE.
Claims:
1. "The WAY you masturbate can lead to PE"
- "Pillow-humping, prone masturbation or using objects for masturbation"
- BS - no studies and no logic
- → Many men - who do NOT come too early - masturbate exactly the same way and DO NOT develop PE.
- “Trained to come quickly because I always masturbated at a fast pace”
- Again - no studies and no logic to support the claim.
- → Men without PE also masturbate at a fast pace and oftentimes even in an extremely fast pace in order to be able to come at all - without developing PE.
- → if you could "train or condition" yourself to finish quicker through the habit of masturbating quickly, then you would also be able to DEcondition and UNtrain yourself to last longer again by using a slower masturbation pace. Which NO REAL lifelong Premature Ejaculator was able to do so far. They have it from the very first sexual experience.
2. "EXCESSIVE masturbation leads to PE"
- The claim is that you can develop PE just through excessive masturbation, because it can condition your Ejaculatory System to finish quickly.
- Absolute B.S. - no studies and no logic.
- First, if excessive masturbation would lead to PE then you could stop masturbation for months and start lasting longer. But no real premature ejaculator has ever experienced that.
- Second - if the excessive masturbation theory was true, then MOST men would develop PE, because Millions and Millions of men masturbate excessively - daily - without ever developing PE.
3. FEAR OF BEING CAUGHT LEADS TO PE
Can the fear of being caught during masturbation cause Premature Ejaculation?
- E.g. the fear that someone will enter your room and catch you in the act of masturbation, which would be shameful, so you always do it as quickly as you possibly can and thus condition yourself to finish quickly...
- → Same bullshit logic, nonrational logic.
- 1) AGAIN - men with lifelong PE finish quickly right from the BEGINNING of having orgasms, even BEFORE they had any chance to condition themselves to finish quickly.
- 2) Second, if "the fear of getting caught during shameful masturbation" could really cause PE, then literally ALL MEN would develop PE. Because 100% of men, without exception, have this type of anxiety in their youth and later in life, they had hundreds and thousands of such situations where they HAD to finish quickly before they could caught be someone entering the room. Yet funnily they do NOT develop PE.
So neither the way you masturbate, nor the excessive masturbation, nor the fear of being caught can be the cause for PE.
But there are certainly bad masturbation habits that CAN have negative consequences.
BAD MASTURBATION HABITS
- Excessive porn consumption = worse erection
- Unrealistic idea of sex through porn = 1) you have sex with yourself, without any movement, just SITTING / Lying, with shallow breathing. Real sex is not like that.
- Mainly masturbating at a fast pace = then in real sex you don't have the awareness for how you could vary your pace in order to last longer.
- Subconsciously you learn to have sex without foreplay = then during real sex you have no idea how to do a good foreplay, and if you then finish early, then the girl will be twice as unsatisfied.
Recommendations
- NoPorn, NoFap - do not masturbate
- It won't help you last longer...
- But will make sure you have a great erection
- Will increase the chance of you getting out there and have real sex
- With all my clients: Phase 1 of coaching = masturbation is allowed, is OK, while you learn all the necessary methods and ways to last longer in sex. But then = complete stop. No more masturbation, only real sex, saving all sexual energy and releasing it during real sex.
- Book your FREE consultation call with me
- Main goal = to understand your situation and if I can help
- If yes = coaching
- You can read countless testimonials of my clients here and see how well my method works.
